Cheer Girl [English], by Redrop

Yeah, Light Saber swinging around again…..
Damn…WHY!!!!!

My only complain is that thrice-damned light rod, I could just disregard the story completely.

For me, Oliver, it depends on what my intentions are with the woman in question. I don't look at the issue from a moral perspective; prostitutes and tramps are not automatically "bad people." My view is one based on instinct and evolutionary psychology. Men are preprogrammed to respond negatively to loose women just as women are preprogrammed to respond favorably to men who are very successful with women. The vast majority of our species is designed in a certain way. Anyone who tells you this is false or that such things are completely created by culture and social conditioning is full of shit.

I'm 27 now. If I met a 31-year old woman tomorrow who had slept with a total of twenty guys (most women will never tell you the true number anyway, a far superior method of determining if she's promiscuous is observing her behaviors and personality), it wouldn't be a big deal. Twenty guys when spread out over the years of a woman that age is not that much. I can take her seriously as a relationship candidate; she is still marriageable.

However, you seem to be implying that a young girl can lick, suck, and fuck the same number of men (twenty in this example) by the time she's 23 and somehow not be a whore. That's a tough argument to make. A woman like this is not girlfriend material no matter how you try to spin it. She's a sex friend at best.

Hell, I met a woman recently who's 23 and already has two children, ages six and four, from TWO DIFFERENT FATHERS. Neither father is anywhere to be found.

Would you marry something like THAT? Go ahead, I'm sure all the drama and harm that decision brings into your life will be worth it, right? It's socially sophisticated! I'm sure there's nothing more progressive and enlightened than putting your tongue in a sewage pit.

Basically, if what you're saying is that there is no limit, then I'm taking the opposing position and saying that there IS A LIMIT.

The slut/player thing is mostly because it's viewed as much easier for a woman to acquire sex than it is for a man to do the same. A man is seen as having accomplished a lot by having sex with many women (Though many methods that lead to this end -do- lead to the man being considered poorly, obviously.), a woman is seen as having given away a highly sought after resource indiscriminately. Additionally, since the woman bears the brunt of potential consequences, it's considered particularly poor decision making.

As a side note, while a guy might respond differently to the situation if it was a woman or a man telling him that they'd had sex with x people, the guy is -probably- not considering sleeping with the man.

MF link http://www.mediafire.com/?r8b717rfitm095t

Don't mean to talk disney-like, but what about LOVE in your argumentation, guys.

I mean, I'm 29 now and have been with quite my content of chicks.
One of my most beloved girlfriends was a bi-sexual girl who had had sex with more than twice the amount I had back then, and I already had had 15 different partners or so…
But HELL, I was feeling fine with that chick and we had a very deep relationship, based on trust and reciprocity. So, what's the matter if she had had more sex than me? Does it make her unworthy my feelings? I don't think so…
The past is past, and I truly think that for a relationship to rise end shine, the only that matters are present time and future.
So, risking to seem very naiv, I'm gonna say we should just listen to our hearts…